Are you ready to live your best life?
Then there is one word in particular that you should never use!
Want to know what it is?
It’s my least favorite word in the English language!
It’s the word that makes me want to scream whenever I hear it used in a sentence!
The word that makes me wince and realize action is required!
It’s the word that new clients often used when asked to describe their life!
It’s the word that will keep you from living your best life!
Ready to hear?
The word is…Fine.
Fine. Such a seemingly innocuous word, yet it’s so unwittingly powerful.
My loathing for that word began several years ago when I’d spent quite a bit of time picking out just the right outfit for a party (remember those?). Discarded outfits littered our bed until I’d finally found just the right one I felt really good in. Walking down the stairs into the kitchen, hubby, who was sitting at the kitchen island reading a ski magazine, looked up, and I asked him, “What do you think?”
To which he replied, “Fine.”
“Fine?” I said.
“Yeah, fine,” he repeated.
I remember squeezing the stair railing and drawing in a breath, and, well, let’s just say hubby knows better than to ever use that word to describe how I look again!
Another time I was in a coaching session with a client who was talking about her relationship with her spouse. As she talked about their marriage, the kids, the house, she sighed and then with a small shrug of her shoulders said, “Things are fine.”
I tried not to cringe, but she saw me and gave an embarrassed smile.
So, I asked, “Is fine working for you?”
She smiled again and shook her head. “No,” she said. “Fine is definitely not working for me.” And I watched as her eyes lit up with the realization that she was ready, and deserving of so much more.
What about you?
Are there areas of your life that you would describe as fine?
Are You ok with that?
You know I’m not! I want so much more for you!
I didn’t come here for fine, and neither did you, sweet friend! We’re here to live exceptional, outstanding, amazing knock-it-out-of-the-park life, magical lives!
Are you ready?
I dare you!
Don’t know where to begin?
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I adore you and I want you to live your best life, so what are you waiting for?
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