I’m at the Laundromat. Our dryer broke. I’m happy. Not that our dryer broke, but being here at the Laundromat.
(Yup, even though my book is getting published – there’s still laundry to do!)
I like the order and purpose of this place. I like the focus. Laundry. That’s it. Well laundry and writing.
I like how I put in a load, add detergent, choose a temperature setting (which I’m never sure about – Hot for darks? Cold for whites?) press start and then sit.
If I were at home, I would have put in the load of laundry, added detergent, pressed start, answered the phone, let the dog out, let the dog in, checked email, hung up the phone, let the dog out, picked up clothes from the bathroom floor, taken ground turkey meat out of the freezer, turned on the tv, turned off the tv, let the dog in, remembered the phone call I had to make, crossed the kitchen to pick up the phone, picked up the phone and forgot who I was going to call, checked email, made a to-do and… I think you get the picture.
Not here. Not here at the Laundromat. Here I sit. And wait. And write. I may come here everyday. With or without laundry. Like my secret-to-happiness morning walks I think I’ve discovered the secret to focused writing.
For me at least. Imagine, some people just sit at a desk.
Maybe I’ll set a chair next to my washer and dryer (once it’s fixed) and after every load goes in, I’ll sit.
Just sit and write.
Folding my first load of whites, I came across my daughter’s well-loved Taylor Swift t-shirt. It reminded me of the laundry blog I posted last year. I did a little digging and discovered it was exactly a year + one day ago!
So just for fun, a trip down Memory Lane! It appears everyday mindfulness remains an enduring goal!
Clean Laundry, Clear Mind (TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 1, 2011)
Today I folded laundry… with mindfulness.
I didn’t rush. I didn’t complain. I didn’t have a phone balanced between my ear and my shoulder. I just folded laundry.
And I noticed. I became aware. As I folded my husband’s white work t-shirts, I pictured his broad chest beneath the smooth, cotton fabric. I could smell his morning shampoo. As I folded my daughter’s prized Taylor Swift t-shirt, I smiled at her pre-adolescent innocence and joy. Folding her clean, white winter tank tops, I remembered her little toddler body scampering away from me as I tried to get her dressed.
Tucker’s gray t-shirts with the Burton logo’s and skateboard company names and scary looking men dressed in shapeless baggy clothes, reminded me of the day when he was three years old and stood high on the back of our living room couch, a homemade cardboard snowboard beneath his feet and screamed, “Watch this, Mom!”
As I folded my new white bras, I thought Oprah would be so proud that I went to a “bra-fitting specialist,” to have them sized correctly, but that the sales clerk would be disappointed they’d gone in the dryer after she’d specifically told me they shouldn’t.
As I gathered up all the lone socks, I thought of Meg, our loyal English Mastiff, always greeting us at the door, with a single sock hanging from her mouth.
And then, just like that, all the laundry was folded.
And I was so glad that I’d gone to that mindful place, so that when I put my daughter’s pajamas in her bottom drawer and saw that the cat had pooped underneath, I could just breathe (not too deeply), get a plastic bag, cleaning spray and remind myself to remind her to clean the litter box.
And I was so glad to be in that mindful state so that when I put my husband’s t-shirts on top of his dresser and found his mountain bike clothes in a sweaty heap on the floor, I could just breathe (again, not too deeply) and move them to the hamper.
And when I went to put my son’s clothes in his closet and saw… that he had made his bed (!!!!), I could truly take a deep breath and choose to overlook the dried up, black banana peel stuck to his writing desk.